Rachel Roberts

"Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly."

Platform: Postpartum Depression Awareness

For many mothers, the experience of pregnancy and childbirth is often followed by sadness, fear, anxiety, and difficulty making decisions. Many women have difficulty finding the energy to care for themselves, their infants, and their families. Some even have feelings about harming themselves and their children.

Postpartum Depression (PPD) is the most common medical complication related to childbearing. It can occur in any women within a year after giving birth. Without treatment, symptoms may last a few weeks, months or even years. In rare cases, the severe symptoms indicate potential danger to the mother and baby. In all cases, help is available.

What Causes Postpartum Depression?

There are a number of reasons why you may get depressed. As a woman, your body undergoes many changes during and after pregnancy. You may experience mood swings. A new baby will change your sleeping schedule and your lifestyle. In addition, there are many pressures to be the perfect mother.

Some women have family members with depression, some women have had depression in their own past, and for some women, the cause is unclear. But for every woman who suffers from PPD, the causes are as unique as she is.

Who Is At Risk?

A family history of depression or bipolar disorder, a history of alcohol or drug abuse, a recent stressful event, relationship or financial problems, or a previous pregnancy with PPD increases a woman's chances of having PPD.

Keep in mind, PPD can affect any woman- regardless of age, race, income, culture, or education. It affects women who breastfeed and those who don't. It affects women with healthy babies and those whose children are ill. It affects first-time mothers and those with more than one child. Because PPD is a health problem, it is not the fault of any woman.

More Information About PPD

About one in eight women suffer from PPD. Symptoms can begin at the birth of a child or any time in the first year after giving birth.

Common symptoms for PPD include:

  • Sad feelings
  • Feeling very anxious or worrying too much
  • Being irritable or cranky
  • Trouble sleeping (even when tired) or sleeping too much
  • Trouble concentrating or remembering things
  • Trouble making decisions
  • Loss of interest in caring for yourself (for example, dressing, bathing, fixing hair)
  • Loss of interest in food, or overeating
  • Not feeling up to doing everyday tasks
  • Frequent crying, even about little things
  • Showing too much (or not enough) concern for the baby
  • Loss of pleasure or interest in things you used to enjoy

Postpartum Psychosis (PPP)

A very small number of women (one or two in 1000) suffer from a rare and severe form of PPD called Postpartum Psychosis (PPP). Women who have a bipolar disorder or other psychiatric problem may have a higher risk for developing this form of depression.

Symptoms of PPP may include:

  • Extreme confusion
  • Hopelessness
  • Cannot sleep (even when exhausted)
  • Refusing to eat
  • Distrusting other people
  • Seeing things or hearing voices that are not there
  • Thoughts of hurting yourself, your baby, or others

IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW FITS THIS DESCRIPTION, PLEASE SEEK MEDICAL HELP IMMEDIATELY. THIS IS A MEDICAL EMERGENCY REQUIRING URGENT CARE.

Symptoms- Baby Blues/ PPD/ PPP

Below is a chart that can be used to compare the symptoms of Baby Blues, Postpartum Depression (PPD), and Postpartum Psychosis (PPP).

 Baby BluesPPDPPP
Common OnsetPeaks at about one weekBy 6 weeks but can occur anytime within first yearSudden and extreme onset
Duration2-3 weeks or up to 6 weeksDepends on treatment but usually resolves within monthsCan be ongoing or episodic
SleepSome changes in sleep pattern apart from infant careInability to sleep or constant sleepingInsomnia and sleep disturbances
WeightNot impactedSignificant gain or lossSignificant gain or loss
ThoughtsSome intrusive thoughts that are quickly recognized as illogical and then dismissedVarying inability to control or stop intrusive thoughtsDelusions, hallucinations, suicidal or homocidal thoughts
ConcentrationForgetfulness, distractionForgetfulness, distraction, inability to think logicallyIllogical choices. confusion, disordered thought patterns
MoodMood swings, irritable, anxiousAngry, sad, extremely anxiousSevere depression
FeelingsConcern about self but not extreme guilt about feelingsGuilt, irrational fears, hopelessnessExtreme fears or lack of any fears
BehaviorTearful, sensitiveTearful, hypersensitive, lethargic, manic/ "hyper", loss of interest in others or usual activitiesBlackouts, can (but may not) exhibit strange behaviors

Women with any of these conditions (including Baby Blues) are NOT to blame and need immediate active support... both emotional and physical. Bring a meal, do her dishes, or take her baby (s) out for a walk so she can nap. Send a card, call her daily or weekly, PRAY for her. Be there for her and listen. But do not ignore her.

How Do I Know If I Have PPD?

Only a trained health care or mental health professional can tell you whether you have Postpartum Depression. However, the following checklist can help you know whether you have some of the common symptoms.

During the past week or two-

  • I have been unable to laugh and see the funny side of things.
  • I have not looked forward to things I usually enjoy.
  • I have blamed myself unnecessarily when things went wrong.
  • I have been anxious or worried for no good reason.
  • Things have been getting the best of me.
  • I have been so unhappy that I have had difficulty sleeping.
  • I have felt sad or miserable.
  • I have been so unhappy that I have been crying.
  • The thought of harming myself, my baby, or others has occurred to me.

If you could agree to more than one of these statements, I encourage you to visit with a trained health care or mental health professional who can help determine if you are suffering from PPD and advise a course of action.

If I Have PPD, What Can I Do?

Some women may find it hard talking about PPD. They may be unsure if they have it or how to discuss it. They may wish to deal with their problem secretly and hope that it goes away on its own.

These feelings are more common than one would expect. However, every woman must realize that she is not alone. PPD affects thousands of women and can be treated successfully. It is possible to feel better. Here are some things that can help.

  • Lean on family and friends. There are many ways family and friends can help you. A few hours of weekly child care can give you a much-needed break. Get help cleaning the house or running errands. When you share your feelings openly with friends and family, it allows them to provide the important support that you need.
  • Talk to a health care professional. Screening for PPD should be a routine part of your health care during and after pregnancy. Health care professionals- such as your doctor, your baby's doctor, a nurse, or other health care provider- are familiar with PPD. They know ways to help, and can explain your options to you. If you feel that your health care provider does not understand what you are going through, please do not give up. There are many excellent providers who do understand PPD, who are ready to listen to you, and who can put you on the road to recovery.
  • Find a support group. Although you may not know it, there are probably other women in your community suffering from PPD. Finding them can give you a chance to learn from others and to share your own feelings. Ask your health care professional how to find and join a support group or visit the Links and Resources page on this site.
  • Talk to a mental health care professional. Many mental health professionals have special training to help women with PPD. They can give you a safe place to express your feelings and help you find the best way to manage and even get rid of your symptoms.
  • Focus on wellness. An important step toward treating PPD is taking care of your body. A healthy diet combined with exercise can help you gain your lost energy and feel strong.
  • Take medication as recommended by your health care provider. Sometimes medications are necessary in the treatment of depression. As with any medications or medical treatment, you should talk to your health care provider about which medication, if any, may be best for you.

How Can PPD Affect My Baby And Family?

The symptoms of PPD often create a very difficult situation for families. Children suffer when they lose the attention and support of their mother. Loved ones suffer because they don't know what to do or how to help. Other family members are often called upon to fill the gap. Because PPD affects the entire family, it is critical that family members recognize the symptoms and help their loved one get help.

Advice For Fathers, Family, And Friends

WONDERFUL video for fathers and family...

If you know a woman who has the symptoms of PPD, this is how you can help.

As a spouse:

  • Encourage her to seek help. This is the quickest path to recovery.
  • Offer support and encouragement. Your positive actions and words can reduce some of her suffering.
  • Listen. Her feelings are real. Let her express them to you.
  • Allow her to focus on her own needs. Physical and social activities help women suffering from PPD feel stronger, more relaxed, and better about themselves.
  • Take time for yourself. It is important for spouses to continue with their work, hobbies and outside relationships.

As a friend or family member:

  • Ask the mother how you can help, including baby-sitting and house cleaning.
  • Let her know you are there for her, even if she doesn't like talking.
  • Understand that the father may also feel stressed from the changes that come with being a new father or by a partner who is suffering from PPD.

If you suspect you may be experiencing any of these disorders, it is important to seek the advice of a medical professional immediately. The information presented here is not medical advice and is not to be taken as such.

 

The information listed on this page was taken from the US Department of Health and Human Services, Health Resources and Services Administration and Christian PPD Support.